Tuesday, April 26, 2011

What would have been....

So today would have been my estimated egg retrival had we gone through IVF. ::le sigh::

Emotionally I've been doing ok. And then I figured out that it would have been today and I got a little sad. In my head, I know that waiting a year isn't a deal breaker. But in my heart it feels like there is just no end in sight to all of this.

The hardest part is that I'm afraid I will spend the next year watching everyone else move forward and I'll still be left behind. Still with no baby.

I just don't want to spend the next year sad. It will just be too much.


  1. I'm sorry Kathy. :(

    - Ya never know

  2. I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how tough this must be for you to go through :( I hope that as you begin to recovery physically from the surgery, you'll be able to find lots of fun ways to take your mind off of the waiting!

  3. Big hugs to you, sweetie.

  4. You ARE moving forward - just not at the pace you expected. Every day is one day closer, even if it takes 365 of them. ((hugs))

  5. Love you! You have a great group of friends that are here for you and will support you every step of the way ((huge hugs))