tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-61090121474000848562024-03-13T05:02:09.034-07:00Hoping for a Baby4678Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.comBlogger386125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-57656183956917093762013-07-07T17:31:00.001-07:002013-07-07T17:31:15.161-07:00I swear I'm alive.And still pregnant. It's just not until recently until I can stay awake long enough to do anything productive.<br />
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I've been so anxious about this baby. Do you tell or do you not tell? How do you have any idea if things are going ok in there? You're just counting the minutes until the next ultrasound and trying not to go totally insane.<br />
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I had to find a new OB cause I moved. So I did that and turns out that I kind of love him. And he's kinda cute too. That helps. He made me feel like things would be ok. Gave me a pap and said I'll see you in four weeks. Um, what? 4 WHOLE WEEKS? I'm totes used to Le Baby Factory where they talk to you daily. I don't do well with 4 weeks in between. Gah!<br />
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So to ease the pain of the wait- I ordered a doppler. Except then I could never find the heartbeat. And the anxiety got worse. J FINALLY found it for me about two days before the NT Scan. PHEW. I scheduled my NT Scan and first trimester screening for Friday July 5th. I had the day off so we headed to the MFM. The ultrasound was ah-maz-ing. No more is the babe a blob or a gummy bear looking creature, but it looks like a for serious baby. And you could see everything. Little heart beating away. Arms and legs wiggling around. Unreal. All of that going on inside my body while I don't feel a thing. Just unreal. We had great measurements and now just waiting for blood work to come back. The MFM likes to monitor IVF patients (and told me he knows that I'm going through ultrasound withdrawal) so he's having me come back at 16 weeks just for a growth scan. Thank you sweet baby jebus. I would hate to have to wait till 20 weeks. Nightmare.<br />
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Anyway- I'm doing great. We've told the world about the baby. And I'll blog again. Pinky swear.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-7731435843299138892013-06-07T17:04:00.000-07:002013-06-07T17:04:27.694-07:00Meet My BabyOne perfect little baby. Heart beating away at 120 beats per minute. Already the love of my life.<br />
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I said goodbye to my nurse and my RE. And now I'm just a regular pregnant lady. What?? I'm a pregnant lady. So surreal. So thankful for every day with that little heartbeat. </div>
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Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-43073051271447208932013-05-20T16:34:00.003-07:002013-05-20T16:34:57.672-07:00Last Beta6839! Whoa. Maybe there really are two baking in there.<br />
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No more betas. Now we wait for the big show. Ultrasound. I'm scheduled for 5/28. LONGEST.WAIT.EVER.<br />
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In the meantime, I'm moving back in with my Mom this weekend. Well WE'RE moving in with my Mom. I guess J and Boo Kitty can come too. And then right after that my Mom's having heart surgery. It's gonna be a loooong two weeks. I need it to be June.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-5093521143954687772013-05-16T15:31:00.000-07:002013-05-16T15:31:00.917-07:00Beta #2!1930! That's a doubling time of 42.5 hours. I'm feeling good about the numbers. So now just one more beta and then we'll schedule the ultrasound. And in the meantime, we'll move. Ugh. Why can't we ever just do one thing at a time??Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-84219594315033639012013-05-14T14:36:00.002-07:002013-05-14T14:36:31.457-07:00Beta #1 is in!883. Um, is this real life?? 883. Holy Crap.<br />
Repeat beat is Thursday.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-32351276280854646222013-05-09T17:41:00.000-07:002013-05-09T17:41:04.188-07:00Yep. Still pregnant. <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This is so shameful. Cause that's not even all of them. I've been peeing on lots-o-sticks. Lots. But my lines are getting darker and they appear faster. And for now- I'll take that as a good sign. Beta is like a billion trillion years away. Sike- it's on Tuesday, but it feels like it will never come. It's also next to impossible to not to tell every.single.person. Worst Best Secret of LIFE.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-62611998157714975672013-05-06T15:41:00.003-07:002013-05-06T15:41:59.234-07:006dp5dt<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Holy Shit. I'm having a baby. I'm going to be a MOM. </div>
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PS- If I know you IRL- NOT a peep about this. NADA. I haven't even told my Mom yet. </div>
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I've mixed meds, done like a bazillion shots, but taking a pregnancy test- a total mystery to me. Ugh. I haven't done this for serious in a long time. I acted like SUCH a NOOB today. I woke up, POAS, saw that the test was stark white and pitched it. An hour later- I saw this. See that SUPER faint line? My internet friends saw it too. And I have NO FREAKIN CLUE WHEN IT ARRIVED?!?! UGGGHHH! How could I do this to myself??? </div>
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I usually hate John Mayer. Ok, well I don't hate him, but he's so annoying. I heard this song and it reminded me of J. It sounds like something he would say to me when I found out someone else was pregnant, or when IVF #1 failed. He's the best. My J- not John Mayer, that is. Mayer's just ok.<br />
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You know, it's nothing new<br />
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Then, circle of your friends<br />
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Love turns the whole thing around<br />
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I'm really lucky to have just about the best little group of interwebz friends EV-ER. 75 women who have stuck by me through all kinds of bullshit. They are pretty amazing. My friend Kati (you can find her blog <a href="http://katiandjuice.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">here</a>) made a little tribute video for our 75 and this song was in it. It's just about the best song for a sunny day with all your windows down and singing at the top of your lungs. Wanna see the video? It's super mega awesome. Click <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IIDbiH88Jy8" target="_blank">HERE</a>. </div>
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We transferred these beauties today- Mary Lou is a highly graded expanded blast (a gold medal winner, clearly) and Reggie Boop is just a hair behind Mary Lou. Transfer went perfectly and both my RE and the doc that did the transfer said we should be very optimistic. Beta is scheduled for May 14th. I'll never make it until then. I'll b\pee on all the sticks long before then. </div>
Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-69789590437486698522013-04-28T05:05:00.001-07:002013-04-28T05:05:33.677-07:00Seven.All 8 were mature. Seven fertilized. SEVEN! As of yesterday- they were all 4 cells and growing normally. We were pushed to a 5 day transfer on Tuesday. HELLO RELIEF! So much better than last cycle.<br />
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So here's my update all in one post! We maxed out on stims from day 1. And lemme tell ya, that's a lot of drugs. LOTS. Thank goodness for insurance cause I probably blew through $8,000 in drugs this cycle. Yikes! Things started out slowly- but started improving relative to last cycle. My e2 levels were rising better, my follicle counts were higher, my attitude was better. We triggered Tuesday and had retrieval today.<br />
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8 eggs! Holy Shit! 8! I was hoping for anything over 4, but I was so relieved when the nurse told me 8. I'm in quite a bit more pain today than last time, but I'm taking my vicoden and rolling with it. I'm going to go into work tomorrow and just see how I feel. I should get the fert report tomorrow as well. At my last monitoring appointment on Tuesday they were all really close in size so I'm hoping that will lead to high numbers of mature eggs. J was also scheduled for a surgical extraction of sperm as a back up this morning and based on the SA from yesterday and the fact that we have frozen sperm as a back up- it was cancelled and we were told it wasn't necessary. So far- all good news. We're planning for a 3 day transfer on Sunday unless we hear otherwise.<br />
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Cross everything. Everything you have. I'm dangerously hopeful.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-37608509319672947642013-04-13T04:38:00.001-07:002013-04-13T04:38:44.992-07:00Yeah. Starting Again. Can't you sense the excitement? I have been neglecting the blog. But it's just cause I've been doing nothing. Well not nothing- I turned 35. We hit the three year mark of trying to have a baby. A good friend who just got married in October is having a baby. Yeah. <div>
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Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-42836375617232517782013-03-24T17:44:00.000-07:002013-03-24T17:44:13.850-07:00Maybe a new plan?J has always said he's not into adoption. He said he couldn't think about that until we had really run out of options to have biological children. When we were going through the whole donor sperm ordeal, I learned that he has a strong need to have biological children, and I get that. So up until now, adoption has been off the table for us.<br />
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When we got the news about the DOR diagnosis, it became a real possibility that with only two tries left at IVF, that biological children may not be in the cards for us. So one night after the news of the DOR, we were having dinner and J tells me that he thinks we need to start thinking about adoption. I was happily surprised. I was glad that he was the one to bring it up and not me. We're not totally sold yet, but we agree that we need to start educating ourselves about adoption and figuring out if it's right for us. There is so much to learn- it's all very overwhelming. But I got myself a book and found some good resources in other girls that have adopted in the recent past. I'm hopeful that IVF isn't the end of our journey.<br />
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Meanwhile we're getting closer to IVF #2 and I'm not so excited about it. I guess I've been stripped of a lot of the hope I had for IVF and now it just feels like we're going through the motions. I guess time will tell.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-23190381445118254962013-03-12T18:32:00.000-07:002013-03-24T17:44:43.045-07:00WTF AppointmentWe met with the RE today to talk about next steps. He officially diagnosed me with Diminished Ovarian Reserve (DOR). Even though my FSH levels were normal (5.6) and my AFC was normal (12), my AMH levels were low- 1.0. So that combined with my absolutely horrid response to the max dose of stims- I am lucky enough to fall into the DOR category. It's a tough diagnosis. It's just making things that much more difficult. But let's be for serious- Did I expect anything less than complicated and expensive? Um, no.<br />
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So since we already know how I respond on the Antagonist protocol- (shitty), the RE wants to use that same drug protocol and front load me with stims. Max out the dose from the beginning to hopefully recruit more follicles at the beginning of the cycle. J and I talked about it and if I'm not showing a good response by 8 or 9 days into stims- I think we'll elect to cancel the cycle. Insurance considers it to be a full cycle if you get to retrieval and being that we only have two left. So I'd really rather not waste a cycle if I'm not responding.<br />
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They also said that J had barely enough sperm to fertilize the four eggs we got, so unfortunately we have to have the urologist as a back up again.<br />
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All in all, it was all pretty depressing news. I'm left feeling a bit hopeless, honestly. I mean we'll try again, but I guess I just have pretty low expectations.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-37866230356427145732013-03-10T15:31:00.001-07:002013-03-10T15:31:43.466-07:00Back to the DietI had a great weekend. Really- every weekend with these girls just kind of helps me fill up the feel good tank and reset myself to a good place. It's so great. I am so lucky and so happy to have them in my life.<br />
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We did take lots of pictures and when I look at them- I'm not super happy with what I see. I can't lie- I don't like the way I look. I clearly feel far better about myself than I did 25 pounds ago, but I realized that I still have quite the long way to go. So I'm back on the diet wagon. Back to eating well and back to exercising. LOTS of exercising. I'm thankful that I didn't gain any weight through IVF, so I won't have to be stressed out about that, but I'm back on birth control and so I really need to get things in check.<br />
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I joined Diet Bet with some of my friends. It's a challenge to drop 4% of your body weight in 28 days. Eeep! That seems really hard, but a good goal to go after. That would put me right before starting stims again and I would be a happy camper.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-35983981484101689342013-03-09T04:46:00.002-08:002013-03-09T04:46:57.952-08:00Good for the SoulMy "feel good" tank is running on E. This weekend is the best timing ever. I'm going to meet with<a href="http://baby4678.blogspot.com/2010/09/coming-out-of-closet.html" target="_blank"> these girls</a>. We've managed to continue our weekends together since that first one. We meet up every few months. Spending time with them is good for the soul. It's so nice to be with people who know your history and love you despite the worst things about yourself. It's strange because we're all in very different places in our lives, but we seem to have found each other again at the exact right time. I love them so much and I can't wait to see them.<br />
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We're also lucky enough to be having lunch with our high school religion teacher. I don't even know how to explain her. She's most likely one of the most wise people I've ever met.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-42028806962537124372013-03-07T18:11:00.001-08:002013-03-07T18:11:09.422-08:00BetaWell in case you couldn't infer from the death cramps or all the BFN posts- beta was negative. And somehow it just really sucked to hear it from my nurse. She is really awesome and for some reason all news IVF related sounds the most official when it comes from her. So yeah. Negative.<br />
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And as soon as it was over- a new one started. I started BCP for IVF #2 last night. The RE Dr. K thinks that the birth control may have over suppressed me (I agree). He still wants me on birth control, but not as much. So I'm going to do two weeks on, one week off, two weeks on. And then start stims. Antagonist Protocol again. We'll see what happens when we go for our WTF appointment next week. I have lots of questions to ask about my poor response and how we're going to try to fix that. So this whole plan is subject to change.<br />
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One big change is that our lips are sealed this time around. No one in real life will know we're doing this. NO ONE. It was so so sucky to have to tell people we failed. So this time we'll keep this under our hats.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-74789453555032551492013-03-04T18:01:00.001-08:002013-03-04T18:01:49.684-08:00Death CrampsI got my period yesterday. Despite taking progesterone, I got my period anyway. And HOLY SHIZ- it's the worst period I've ever had. Cramps that almost made me leave work and have me eyeing the Vicoden I got after egg retrieval. I talked to the nurse today and she told me to keep taking the meds- Estrodil and Endometrin. Um, probs not. Nothing except a tampon is going in my vag right now. She said "You could still be pregnant." NO I CAN'T. Just let this whole damn thing end. Ugh. And I have to go tomorrow morning to get blood drawn for me to prove to her that I'm not pregnant. I get it- they need some kind of official negative. Ok, fine.<br />
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I guess the good part about already getting my period is that hopefully we can move right into #2. Am I nuts for doing that? I can't tell yet. I mean the crazy train is moving- why bother stopping it?Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-87370589632483839392013-03-01T21:16:00.000-08:002013-03-03T05:28:48.968-08:0010dp3dt<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Negative. I'm feeling like I can really call it a fail now. And I'm FO SHO ready to quit shoving progesterone in my vag. Yesterday was melt down day. I couldn't keep my shit together for nothin. I threw myself a pity party last night and kindly invited my husband. We had a good heart to heart. He talked, I cried. He told me we were going to be ok. And that was what I needed to hear.<br />
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I'll keep testing till the beta, but I'm gonna go ahead and say that we'll be moving on to IVF#2 soon.<br />
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One thing I've decided is that I told FAR too many people we were doing this. And now it's going to suck to have to tell a billion people that it didn't work. Lesson learned for next time.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-7440590062763144232013-02-27T20:31:00.002-08:002013-03-03T05:28:21.943-08:008dp3dtIt's 11:06pm. WAYYYY past my bed time. Why am I up?? Well I went to bed like a regular person. And then I got all hopeful. I started thinking about what it would be like if this really does work. Thinking about showing J that stick with that little "pregnant" in the window. Telling my sister she's going to be an aunt. Maybe taking on of those cheesy pictures where you mean to say cheese, but you say "We're having a baby" instead. Or writing it on a cake. I let myself picture my family and J's family in those scenes. And I couldn't sleep thinking about it.<br />
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So I did what any rational person would do- I got up and took a pregnancy test. And now I can't sleep because that test is still stark white. Still one lonely line. And the hope is gone again. Now I can't sleep because I'm thinking about what happens if we never have a baby. I don't want to be sad like this. I don't want to just be an Aunt. I don't know how to do this.<br />
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I just want this to be over. I wish I could just go get the beta done and be through with this.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-22317554742633820892013-02-26T15:41:00.001-08:002013-03-03T05:27:50.810-08:007dp3dtI tested today. Stark white. Gah- I hate myself for doing that. I hate this shit.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-72831330228812637972013-02-23T05:44:00.001-08:002013-03-03T05:27:26.687-08:004dp3dtLots of twinges in the ute area lately. Not really like cramps, but just odd twingey feelings.<br />
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According to NYU Fertility Center, today the blastocyst continues to hatch out of it's shell and begins to attach itself to the uterus. Oh FFS, I hope so.<br />
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I'm totally over Endometrin. TMI, but my vag is SO foul and soggy. I'm walking around feeling like I wet my pants. I'm burning through panty liners like they are free. My boobs hurt SO bad it's crazy pants. And I'm tired a lot. But I know all that is all from the progesterone.<br />
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I'm reading stories on the boards about people with FAR better embryos and are getting negative tests. I know you can't compare, but it's just hard to read that stuff and have any glimmer of hope. I should really quit reading it.Kathy4678http://www.blogger.com/profile/08250131764461289193noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6109012147400084856.post-43747896997294804802013-02-21T05:26:00.000-08:002013-03-03T05:26:53.534-08:002dp3dtTrigger is gone. Test from 6 days post trigger was stark white.<br />
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Hope is gone too. The RE from transfer really kinda sucked the life outta me. And now I've just decided that it's better for me to assume that it hasn't worked and be pleasantly surprised. I think I will also be less upset if I knew that we had some perfect textbook-esque cycle, but let's keep it real- it was far from that. </div>
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I got knocked up by a man I just met while my husband watched. Ha! I've been using that line as much as possible today. It's not every day you can say that. We got to watch the whole thing which is pretty awesome. We got to watch them get sucked into the catheter, then the cath goes into the ute, then the little flash showing them going right in. It's amazing to watch, really. It just unreal that this can happen. Truly God and science working together. It's really amazing. </div>
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The RE burst my hopefully little bubble a little. They are little behind, he says. One is a four cell and one is a five. Ideally they'd be AT LEAST 6 cells- should be more like 8-10. Sadfaces. All out of my hands at this point so all I can do is cross my fingers and pray like hell. Beta is set for March 5th. Lord knows I won't make it that long. I'll be peeing on sticks long, long before that. Trust. </div>
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So now I'm in my very first two week wait. Like the first time I could legit be pregnant. After only almost three years. Crazy pants. But let's keep it real- if there is one thing that I am good at- it's waiting. I've done a lot of it. I may go underground for a while. I have some IRL homies that read my blog- HAI SARSSY! And I would love to be able to surprise them with good news if there is some. So I'll be blogging and holding the entries in draft until we know the news. Don't miss me too much, mmmmkay? </div>
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